Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Bill and Blu


Sorry, no picture of me picking up Bill and swinging him around at the airport (like I did with Jonah), but we were sooooooooooooooo happy to have Tirz and Bill here for a few weeks!!  They settled in quickly, and made best friends with Blu.  And Mercy.  But mostly Blu-who-is-not-allowed-on-the-couch. 

Easter yum

The brunch buffets in Jakarta are fabulous.  Really, really fabulous.  And not that expensive which is surprising given what they include.  Pasta of all kinds (made to order), Indonesian food, dim sum, salads, fresh seafood, sushi, a huge spread of cheese (yay!!!!).. and desserts!  This was a special occasion, so the desserts were especially special. But wow.



The head chef came out to ask us what we thought, and got some big compliments on the cheese as well as some sharp critiques of the sushi (not fresh or tasty).  He ended up taking Pablo and Eben--both admitted aspiring chefs--back to the kitchen for a tour.  They returned, complete with toque and LOTS of admiration for the walk-in refrigerator.




Two girls and a boy - sexy (?!)

We are just beginning to learn about sexy in our house (well, not me.. I've known about it for a few months already).  Like other parenting moments that you knew would come one day but hadn't really planned your reaction, I've decided to just go with it.  Watch.  Ask questions.  Compliment the things that I think should be encouraged.  Understand (in spite of myself) that this is not about sex, but rather about trying new things with your body.  Kinda like dance class.  Ahem.
 
And so I did not freak out when I found sexy fashion show pictures on my phone.  I giggled, and wished that I had been in the audience.
 
So.......................... I bring you.. Miss Pretty Malvy with her beau Handsome Eben, and the Beautiful Jaffa Wynne.
 



What we miss..

I was chattering at Zeric the other night, talking about all of the things that I miss.. fresh fruits and vegetables, including TOMATOES, artichokes, peaches, plums, all kinds of greens, berries...
I miss SIDEWALKS and being able to wander around great parts of town and look in stores.  I miss being able to shop for clothes that are my size (I am an XL here).  My family, my friends.  Great restaurants.  Being able to get places in a reasonable amount of time.  Driving myself around. Cool weather and big sweaters, and my favorite boots.  hmmmmm.. what else?

I asked him what he misses.  "I miss pork."

Saturday, April 19, 2014

Aquaman, the mermaid and the goldfish


Following the Frozen-themed party, our friend Amira had an under-the-sea themed birthday party.  We sent Aquaman and a very beautiful goldfish to the party.. a great time was had by all!

Go Indah!

One of Zeric's recent innovations USAID was the establishment of the Democracy and Governance Knowledge and Impact Clinic.  The DG KIC is meant to shed light on emerging methods to determine program impact of DG activities, to look at the cross sector opportunities that present themselves in development programs, and to provide a venue for clinical discussions with experts about potential impact evaluation methods.  The second DG-KIC featured a discussion of our office's local governance program with a special guest the Vice Bupati (deputy mayor) of Luwu Utara who has championed service delivery improvements in school teacher assignments and support in her district.  This discussion shared lessons learnt for providing better public services.  Luwu Utara District is one of the nominee for UN-Public Service Delivery (UNPSA) award this year on that topic. Indah was a participant in the US Embassy international visitors program visiting the US in 2012, and gained insight from the experiences of local governments in the US.

A special kind of training workshop

A few weeks ago, I observed a week-long training workshop that was unlike anything I've seen before.  There were a couple of things that made it special.  First, all of the fifteen participants were disabled in some way, but not all in the same way.  Budi has severe cerebral palsy, Sahrul was in a factory accident that took both of his arms almost to the elbow, Acana is deaf, Luis is legally blind, Noni has Downs Syndrome.. and so on.  Second, there was some kind of interpretation going on at all times in the room (at most English, Indonesian, sign language).  Third, there was a cartoonist capturing all of what was happening in the sessions, and he was amazing!  Fourth, the room was set up so that everyone's special needs were taken care of.. like, really big script on the projections and music in the background for the blind who don't have the visual stimulation during quieter times.  Everyone was willing to help someone else if they could.. and each had some way of helping the another person.
 
Together, over the course of the week, they all learned about facilitating and empowering communities to better understand the needs of the disabled. 
 
sign language, Indonesian, and English all at once

Our participants
 

The participants were encouraged to be creative when expressing themselves, so this training had lots of singing, poems, and stories.  Lots and lots of pictures and group work.

thinking about stereotypes..
It was great to see the participants become increasingly empowered over the course of the week, and it was great for me to meet them and hear more about their everyday challenges and what they have been able to accomplish in spite of them.  At the end of the training, we each made a list of things that we were going to do after the week ended.  I said that I would: be more willing to ask for help, ask people how they would like to be helped, and expose my kids to more different kinds of people.  and I might try to learn sign language too!